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Old 07-25-2009   #1
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Default Feeling sexual energy

So, since this section of the forum doesn't seem to have too much activity, I thought I'd pose a question.

I've been getting into tantra again lately. Now, I used to always focus my attention on giving the woman pleasure. Nothing wrong with that, it's great and I'll keep on doing it. But I've started to feel like I was missing something. I became more aware of women's sexuality than my own. And witnessing the pleasure they were able to experience, I got a little bit envious...
Now I've started doing various breathing exercises to become more aware of my own sexual energy.
I noticed some of you are into tantra as well, so my question is this:

What does sexual energy feel like?

I know it might be an individual thing, but I'm not always sure what I'm looking for. I can feel certain subtle energy movements in my body, but I've felt those during regular meditation as well. They are not the same as the energy I sometimes feel concentrated in my genitals. And that energy in my genitals seems impossible to direct elsewhere in my body.

So, any tips, guidelines,... whatever may help to expand my awareness of sexual energy would be greatly appreciated.
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Old 08-27-2009   #2
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I'm definitely no pro here, but it seems that no one is touching this.

If you have a chance, read some of David Deida's stuff. He goes into this a bit in "The Way of the Superior Man."

Perhaps you've tried it already, but contracting and releasing muscles can help to move energy about.

Also, to me energy is energy. Sexual energy is not neccessarily different to what you already experience during regular meditations. (Sex can be a meditation itself, right?)
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Old 08-28-2009   #3
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I also have very little experience, but I do remember listening to an episode of 'pickup podcast' (don't know if you've checked them out) where they talked about this. They were interviewing some guy, I think it was alex allman, and he talked about sexual energy and other sexual stuff. You might want to check out that episode (it's somewhere before episode 50 I believe) and his stuff, as he seemed to know what he was talking about.
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Old 08-28-2009   #4
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Hi Sammy.

Energi can be felt by everyone, but the sensation can be differently from person to person. I recommend you buy "The tao of sexology" by Stephen D Chang. I´m not a salesman, but I really think it contains some very interesting things.

If you want to try to feel the sexual energi, you can try a ex. called "The deer ex.". You should breathe normally and then squeeze(contract) your anus in. It should be felt like you´re pulling the rectum in and up. Hold for as long you can without staining and the release. Over time you will be able to hold for longer and longer periods of time. It can be done laying down, sitting or standing up. The most important thing is that you wear loose pants.
When I do the ex. standing up and squeeze, I can feel the energi moving from my balls and up the spine. In my case, it moves really quick up all the way to my skull and tingles. A nice feeling sensation..:-)

Try it out.

A couple of other books I would recommend is "The multiorgasmic man" by Mantak Chia and "Path notes of an american ninja master" by Gleen Morris. (No kidding, :-)he has great insights of both meditation and the book contains some great recommendings of other books on sex)
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Thanks for the tips, guys!

I've read just about everything by Deida already. I keep reading it, in fact, 80% of the time, when I'm reading, it's Deida.
And I also heard about Alex Allman, he seems to know his stuff. Heard him in the AMP Authentic Sexual Power Program.

What seems to help is a slightly different form of masturbation I've been trying lately. Don't remember where I read it, Destin Gerek does it as well, it's called 'sexual self-exploration'. Basically you explore the sexuality of your own body, like touching, pinching and stroking different parts of your body, not just your genitals; making sounds, doing whatever you are moved to do. No porn, no distractions, just you and your sexuality...
It's helping me become aware of sexual energy, I can feel it racing through my legs, sometimes to other places, but it's still difficult to direct it up the spine. And making sounds seems to help discharge excess energy. It's quite an interesting experience, like discovering your sexuality all over again. It made me remember those moments when I was little, and I first discovered it felt good to touch my weewee...

Anyway, I'll keep on exploring, I'll be trying the deer exercise some more, and start reading Glen Morris, his name seems to be coming up alot for me lately...

Thanks!
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Sammy Angels my Brother!

I think you are headed down the right path to finding out more about sexual energy!

Self exploration I think is great and an excellent way to hone into what exactly sexual energy is and ways to channel it.

Researching Reiki as well as Chakra may help you with your path as well!

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Sammy Angels my Brother!

I think you are headed down the right path to finding out more about sexual energy!

Self exploration I think is great and an excellent way to hone into what exactly sexual energy is and ways to channel it.

Probably one of the ways that I learned to really channel my sexual energy was to masturbate to the point of almost climaxing - then I would completely stop - focus on channeling the sexual energy (the feeling of cuming) into other areas of my body. Then I would start up again, bring my self to the point of almost climaxing - stop - focus - channel energy to other areas of the body. Repeat.

This exercises helped me in many ways of learning about sexual energy.

Researching Reiki as well as Chakra may help you with your path as well!


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Jpender, There's a book on that called The Multi-Orgasmic Man.

Ejaculation comes after the orgasm and all.

Did you find it out with a book or just uh... Experimentation?
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After 28 years of living in my own body - I have come to know it very well!

Books - have not really had too much impact

Experimentation or self exploration has probably been the greatest teacher...of course the beautiful women that have been in my bedroom have also been wonderful teachers as well!

Although - I am not sure the word teacher is the correct word to use...
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If you're getting regular sex then "self-exploration" doesn't do you harm, otherwise masturbation leads to nothing but more masturbation.
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