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Old 11-30-2008   #1
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Hi im Mantra, this is my first post. Im 17 years old, no experience with women whatsoever. But a few days ago, I had an epiphany and everything seemed to make sense, I finally understood what it is to be a true natural. The following is a culmination of Zan Perrion's and Rion Williams' teachings:

Lets say, you see a hot girl. Dressed in sexy, tight clothes, blonde hair, make-up.....the whole package. She's a 10. Some of us are fearful of that, I used to be too until a few days ago. Now, through natural grounding, you know that what she is showing, is not her natural character or her 'true' beauty. It is only a mask of what society has turned her into. You are sad for a while, because you know that she wants to escape that social BS and wants to be her true natural self again. But then you are happy, because you know that you are going to BE THE MAN, who is going to take her away from the social fascade.

How are you going to BE THE MAN? Through your state of mind. It's all about having a 'giving' mentality. When you're in that state, You don't want to take something from her, you don't want sex. Rather you want to give her the freedom of being herself and escape society. As Zan says, every girl wants to be in a love story, and you are her prince charming. When you're in the 'giving' state of mind. There is no more fear, why? Because it is biologically impossible for a man to be afraid of a woman's natural character, you see her for who she is and not her society adapted self and you want her to see herself as who she actually is. An innocent, beautiful, virtuous, nice girl.

It's about having an innate love for women, but not women as in the sexy tight clothes, the make-up, the sexploitation of society. But rather a love for women in their true natural state, the innocent, nice, smiling state. And knowing that you are her escape from the socio-cultural oppression. When you are cognitive of that fact, you have that mentality no matter where you are, there is no more fear. Women, with their heightened intuition can sense that you are the one who knows their truth, their secret, so they can trust you with it. They will let their shields down, and make themselves vulnerable to your touch, because they know that you are a man of true character.

When in this state, you don't even have to say a word. If you are cognitive of all that I've said so far, your physiology and energy will speak for you. But ofcourse to change the neurology of the brain and make new neural pathways, to overpower your previous beliefs is going to take some work. Visualisations and affirmations, but once your consious and subconcious mind are together on this 'giving', state of mind, you will communicate everything without saying anything. Remember language was created by humans, but the process of attraction is purely biological.

At this point, the game becomes void. You don't need any pick up lines, or manipulative methods to break down her shields. She will willingly drop them down, because she can sense your energy, she knows that you are a true man. How are you a true man, in that 'giving' state? Because you don't 'want' anything from her like millions of other men, you want to 'give' her an escape from society and let her be herself. You are not attached to any outcomes, you see right through her socio-cultural adaptation to the supressed natural sexuality that lies within and you are the only one, who even knows that it exists. This myself is the nature of a true man.

When you're in that state, with enough work you don't have to put yourself in it, you will always be in it. But, when you're in that state, you are automatically the stimulus to your environment, and the stimulus to her, so that makes her the response. Which is the way its meant to be, and when it is that way because of your 'giving' state: Biology, Nature, Universe, everything is aligned.

And that my friends is the truth of being a natural.

Ever since learning this, internalising it through visualisations, affirmations etc. Girls have responded like never before, wherever I go. They are more playful and innocent, even the most popular girls in schools, the ones I used to be fearful of are now opening up their true nature. Ofcourse I myself also need more work to strengthen that giving state, but i'll get there.

Here are a few links for further guidance: www.abovethegame.net
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=it79dPC3egE

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Mantra

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Old 11-30-2008   #2
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What a life you will lead. Know always that you have this mindset. Remind yourself of it, demonstrate it. Promise now to bring these great word to life through your actions, because here, with the understanding you convey in this post you are walking a path toward mastery.

I thought I had a headstart in my youth attending a girl's school during the first term of it being do-ed aged 13. I made most of the mistakes possible with girls very early on & learned fast... but at seventeen I doubt I could have written the way you have here.




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Old 11-30-2008   #3
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Mantra, I am very impressed with your cognition of relational dynamics and what it means to be a natural! I look forward to further reports from you about your progress.

It sounds like you do natural grounding as taught by Rion Williams. Can you provide some insight into how you perform the natural grounding? Are there any specific things that you have learned that might help others in this practice?

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Old 11-30-2008   #4
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basically all that natural grounding is meant to do is train your subconcious mind to look at women as their natural self. At one point in time i was addicted to pornography. For millions of other men, their view of women is skewed by what we call the 'forced reality'. So their subconcious mind attaches feelings or emotion to those skewed views of women, their social side. But unfortunately this social view is not the path to sex, or even close. Society makes us think it is. So if you can ground yourself and your subconcious on the natural view of women, then you will be able to communicate with them like no other man can.

Basically, all you do, is look at natural women on youtube, other websites etc..... Thai and Asian women in general demonstrate more natural character behaviourally. So look up these names on youtube and watch their music videos: Palmy, Oh La Naw, Katreeya English, Aya Ueto. Watch the secret to women video first so you know what you're looking for. But its not just about watching if you want to train your subconcious. watch these videos in a meditative state and visualize natural energy from these women flowing through, and through your mind. Visualizations are a very powerful way to train the subconcious mind.

Then, after a while, your view of women will change. You will no longer attach emotion to the sexy clothes, the make-up, the blonde hair, the sexploitation. Rather you will have emotion for her innocent, virtuous, smiling, nurturing, natural self.

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I only wish I had been half this enlightened when I was your age. Not only are you learning the ways of women early on, but you've found a path that isn't tactics and routines. Kudos!

A word on affirmations. They only work when you already believe what you are affirming. It's more about reinforcing beliefs (by reminding yourself often), rather than changing them. This means, that if you don't don't truly believe X, then you must delve into the reason why (possibly by looking at the belief Y that holds it's place).
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It seems similar as the feeling of having your Heart open.
You just Love, you don't want to take but give, you are truly happy and want others to be the same.
You truly Love women, there is no ego-neediness.
Yeah man,we must be talking about the same stuff.
I learned that from ideagasms.
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You are very right Mantra. Every girl has a a true inbound nature that she want to own but society also has its influence that results in an exploited from. Whenever given a chance she wants to get back to the origin.
Your whole post is very inspiring but this paragraph has really touched my heart:
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How are you going to BE THE MAN? Through your state of mind. It's all about having a 'giving' mentality. When you're in that state, You don't want to take something from her, you don't want sex. Rather you want to give her the freedom of being herself and escape society. As Zan says, every girl wants to be in a love story, and you are her prince charming. When you're in the 'giving' state of mind, which also by the way is the 'alpha' mentality, There is no more fear, why? Because it is biologically impossible for a man to be afraid of a woman's natural character, you see her for who she is and not her society adapted self and you want her to see herself as who she actually is. An innocent, beautiful, virtuous, nice girl.
Here you are so true that I am just speechless.
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Well said, but I really think that we always want something about women in some way.

I think that when we feel atracted to women is our biological inner being or our mental being, that wants to connect with woman... conversation, sex, privacy...

But as you say, I think the difference, is the personal behaviour, you can walk around expressing "sex,sex,sex,sex" with an insane need, or you can walk around expressing "sex,love,understanding,connection,live"...
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Kudos, that's one hell of a first post.

Have you ever read anything by David Deida? I think you'd like it. Some of the exercises he suggests remind me of this natural grounding thing. Except for the looking at girls in youtube video's part...

I just finished 'Wild Nights', one of the greatest books I ever read on spirituality and sexuality. Definitely no airy fairy crap in there!
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wow, thats good thanks. my only issue is:

"You are sad for a while, because you know that she wants to escape that social BS and wants to be her true natural self again. But then you are happy, because you know that you are going to BE THE MAN, who is going to take her away from the social fascade."

Then why does she put on that front? I know girls who are just as beautiful who do not put on the front...
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