To win an ex back...or not?

[Harp]

I think the real reason I'm not getting over her more quickly is because of my masochistic drive. Part of me WANTS to be hurt because that's where I'm most comfortable. I automatically cling to painful memories of when she was attracted to me and contrast it with how she feels now, because part of me LIKES hurting myself. And I also like overanalyzing things because it takes my mind away from all the real issues I need to tackle in my life.

I have to change that if I'm ever want to successfully date someone. This is at the very core of why I struggle with women so much.